There is Method to finding a Soul Mate.
There are many calculations to be done.
How many people are in your city?
How many are of the opposite sex?
How many do you enjoy being around?
How many are single?
All these questions can be calculated and the Probability of finding a Soul Mate can be figured out. So Romance is a game of Numbers.
And like all games people cheat.
People are also Methodical about finding romance. There is strategy in Romance.
Generally one must create an illusion of grace.
Appear confident yet gentle.
There are also the small flirtations.
Love is always said to be like an Uphill battle but when you master the strategy its feels like you're going up that hill in a range rover.
However, when you get to the top you realise theres a road and you've run out of gas.
Common interests are like the Gas of human relationships. You wont get very far without them.
Maybe if you push. (but no one likes doing that.)
There is one defining factor in finding a Soul Mate that goes beyond any simple calculation.
It goes beyond any questions.
It is the perfect game. Some win and some lose.
There is no method. It is wild.
This defining factor?
The love you share.
You can go on with your life and let Love be just another Calculated risk.
Or you can enjoy it.
Because in the end only two things matter.
You and them.
If love is theory
Then your soul mate is the solution.